The very cafe I’m sitting in is proudly flying both a rainbow flag and a trans pride flag. So, my question is am I bisexual? I truly only think those things are sexy when I’m drunk and when I’m sober, it all actually turns me off.Īs I write this column, I’m sitting in the middle of Northampton, Massachusetts, once deemed “the lesbian capital of the world” and now home to a bustling LGBTQ+ (lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans, queer, + the wide spectrum of identities in between) community. All of it turns me on super bad and my wife knows this and she thinks it’s sexy. I don’t like the way we smell, look, talk, our masculinity, facial hair, nothing and mind you I’m 220 lbs, 6 ft, and with facial hair.īut when I’m drunk I’m down for anything! Once I’m at that level I literally want vagina, penis. I have nothing against gay people at all - if anything I would rather hang out with my gay friends because they’re more fun and respectful. I don’t cheat on my wife but I love females. When I’m not drunk I’m 1,000,000% attracted to women only. I absolutely love everything about sex - it’s almost a passion of mine, I would say. However there’s something we noticed when we’re drunk. My wife and I only drink when my mother-in-law is watching the kids for the night. I’m a straight 30-year-old man with six kids.